I am not quoting him, but in frank he said that women only see things one way. I asked him what is the one way women sees things? I think he said that women only see their problem and not the problem that the other person (man) has.
Some conversations will just never leave us and the one I just mentioned above is one of them.
Not that I am saying that each time we have issues with someone it means we aren't seeing their issue and that they are right if you just understand their issue, but truly, how often do we really sit and evaluate what a person we are having an issue with; what that person's problem may be or why they see things a certain way to not allow them to agree with you or behave in a way that you think they should behave?
Quite frankly, I have come to understand that when individuals are
cultured a certain way, there is really no way you can program them into
doing what you think they should do for whatever variety of reasons you
think they may want to do it, eventually.
Sometimes I laugh. We know that a person's believe system isn't synced with ours and yet still we beat ourselves over the situation and even beat up that person we are fussing with too.
Culture and chemistry is a funny thing eh. The more we understand it is the more we may not necessarily get along with others, but the more we just may live at peace with those who we just can't get to do what we think they should do.
Sometimes I laugh. We know that a person's believe system isn't synced with ours and yet still we beat ourselves over the situation and even beat up that person we are fussing with too.
Culture and chemistry is a funny thing eh. The more we understand it is the more we may not necessarily get along with others, but the more we just may live at peace with those who we just can't get to do what we think they should do.
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