Sunday, November 22, 2015

He Loves Me, He Loves Me Not! How to tell if he's really inlove...


When I was a little girl I would come home and pick hibiscus flowers from the tree at the side of my yard whenever I wanted to know if a boy I had a crush on, loved me or no. Boy, was I silly. Haha. Silly or no every female who has fallen head over heels for someone and ultimately wants the question answered of whether or not this guy she's obsessing over really at least likes her.

Over the years I have come across many signs, some clear as day and others very subtle, to tell or at least have an idea if a man is really that into you. Do not be mistaken. Not all fellas behave the same, but their actions and responses to requests given by a female they just have fallen for is pretty obvious and can determine if 'He Loves Me'.

Men react and treat very differently a female they may have fallen for. In most cases things he does and ways he reacts are almost always very different to others. Miraculously always available, returns calls and answers silly or redundant questions posed by this wonder of a woman he has fallen for. He even goes through the excruciatingly longs moments of having to wait on her when she does what a woman does best. Make a man wait. At any moment's notice he is readily available to accompany her to places he wouldn't get caught dead at. You get the idea.

Love in its entirety can be somewhat confusing, but I have found that when it is genuine you'll know. Although at moments you may have doubts about the place you have posed in this man's heart at the end of the day you always know that his heart belongs to you, because when you need him he's always there, through the good or / and the bad times.

That's the difference. He's there when the days aren't as bright to hold your hand in order to make it alright. True love doesn't hide and has absolutely no need to be searched for, because it is right there just where you need it when it resonates in him to be. There and that's all that matters.

Now the question no longer is a mystery, because you will know in the end, He Loves Me Now...